Real Life Fairy tales are the Best – Indulge me!
I can’t help myself. I am drawn to the Royal weddings. I’ve always been drawn to Cinderella over the years as well. What true blue girly girl, dreamer, romantic hasn’t? I think the attraction is the fact that this is a real life fairytale. A commoner marries a prince ….at the Castle…and becomes a princess. Hello? It’s not just any of us. Its true life royalty, and her life will never be the same. Yes, there is responsibility that comes with that position but what little girl doesn’t dream of marrying her prince charming? And there has been no prince more charming than Prince Harry. Am I right?
I realize a lot of folks are down on the royals as they are merely figure heads that have a lot of money and spend a lot of money to maintain their lifestyle. Castles and crowns are expensive. But the Royal dynasty was going long before Queen Elizabeth was born into it, through no fault of her own, I might add. I guess as the Queen, she could say enough of this nonsense but its her family heritage and probably doesn’t seem like nonsense to her. In fact, I know she takes all of this very seriously. And her children were just born into royalty…they didn’t choose that. Then Charles chose Diana and she became our favorite real life princess and then they had two boys who also, through no fault or decision of their own, became true blue prince’s. So you can look down your nose at them but that’s the way it is folks.I’m just a commoner caught up in the romance and pomp of it all. God save the Queen. Here, here!
If you watched the royal wedding of Harry and Meghan this morning you would have been in awe of the florals. Mostly greenery with tiny white flowers nestled amongst the leaves but that archway that was the door to and from the church. Absolutely stunning. Who ever was responsible for that is in the business of creating fairytales. Add to that a 16 foot trailing veil on an elegantly simple dress and you can’t help but get emotional. Inside the church…those three arches inbetween where the commoners sat and where Royalty sat in the choir loft were amazing. And they were so cute up there, holding hands forever. No one will forget Harry looking at Meghan through veiled admiration and telling his new princess she looked amazing. AND that cellist? Yes, these are the elements of lofty, pinch me dreams…fairytales.
I wish them well. Godspeed. I want their lives to go well and for Meghan to find true love with Harry and visa versa. These are real people, royalty, but real people, with feelings and failing bodies and tangled emotions and families and friends and dreams. I want them to be happy. I want Meghan to be be much happier than our royal idol and love, Diana. I still feel she got the short end of the straw and that she was set up for failure and yet, she still won over our hearts, hook, line and sinker. Harry is her youngest son and I want him to be happy. He has been through much grief and mourning in this life. Let him marry the woman he loves without finding fault. He looked truly over the moon.
I was blessed to be a witness to this momentous occasion, even if only on television, surrounded by dear friends and family that share my enthusiasm and tenderness for the Royal family. We joined in the the festivities by having our own Royal Wedding breakfast complete with the Elderflower lemon cake that was going to be served at Windsor Castle. Well not the exact same one obviously but a homemade replica. It’s been a day to remember.
Momma
Repost from May 8, 2016
Just browsing through all the tender and poignant pictures and tributes to mothers. Mothers really do make the world go around. At least until Father’s Day….But what an honor and a privilege to be given the opportunity to be a mother. It’s not a for sure thing you know? Proverbs 31 says “her children will rise up and call her blessed” and I see a lot of that going on today. There IS good in the world and this is as it should be.
Maybe not everyone is a mother but we all have a mother or had one… For better or worse. With all the broken mother/child relationships in this world let us never take it for granted if we have open lines of communication with our kids and a constant flow of love and cherished memories. If we are proud of them and they of us….then we of all women are most blessed.
I am among the blessed. I have loved my calling as a mother (just don’t tell my kids). It has brought joy, meaning and a purpose to my life that I never could have imagined. And it’s been so much fun, except, of course, when it wasn’t. IYKWIM. I got to play with Barbies again, and build Legos and practice beautiful hairstyles in my daughters lovely long hair. I got to hang at Toys R Us as an adult and see all the Disney movies without anyone questioning my maturity because I was doing it for the kids… Of course, for the kids. Even our hot pursuit stalking and collecting beanie babies… I was SO into it. Making memories has always been my constant purpose and we have collected almost as many precious memories as we have beanie babies. (Unfortunately they did not pay for Andrews university education which was the original plan).
I can entertain myself for hours watching reruns in my head of all our adventures, mishaps and treasured moments. The joy has been worth every heartache and breakdown. (That would be me breaking down not the kids).
So here I sit by the fire on this cool Mothers Day eve not feeling sad or disappointed but feeling rich and blessed to have been the centre of someone’s universe even if only for a few years. Now I need to take a little nap so I can pick my own mother up from the airport at midnight as she flies in from New Zealand. The celebrations continue.
I hope you recover soon!
“Would you like to have this pink love seat that we bought from the Fairmont Palliser Hotel renovation sale? ” I heard my friend ask on the other end of the phone. ” Would I? I thought you’d never ask.” A bunch of my friends, I call them ‘the beautiful people’, had all gone down to this hotel’s purging sale and scooped up a half dozen or more of these lovely pink love seats and several coffee tables to match. I was quite disappointed that I had missed out. This was years ago. I’d been lusting after the couches for years as I saw them in the homes of my lucky friends and now “I” finally had one. Bonus: she just gave it to me (aka free) as they were purging and moving or something. So there it sat at the foot of our bed for many years. I continue to look at it and remind myself that I should recover it. It needed to be recovered as opposed to slip covered because of the wooden frame. It was a lovely pink but the fabric was dated and dirty (I mean hello? the Palliser didn’t want them anymore because they were worn). I kept it covered with cushions so you could barely see the pink anyway. I guess I was using it as sort of a make shift foot board for our bed since our bed merely sat upon a metal frame. I put a mirror and some pictures at the head of the bed to take the place of a headboard and the love seat completed the look at the foot.
We are not Forgotten
Embracing the rain this morning after enduring an extremely long, cold, harsh winter. I thought it would never end. Customarily, I love winter, but even I have had enough. The smell of rain and the freshness of the breeze wafts through my bedroom window as I lay in bed longer than usual because my body has succumbed to a spring cold. As I lay here barely breathing, every muscle in my body aching, mouth parched from breathing through it all night long, I’m listening to the rain drops beat the roof of our patio just outside our bedroom window and excited at the prospect of how quickly the dead, dry, brown earth will turn to green as the heavens water it for us. God never forgets the cycle of things. Things He set in motion. Things like Spring and Summer. They WILL eventually come. That is the hope we have. That the cycle God set in motion from the beginning of time, from the days He created the earth and declared ‘it was good’, will continue their cycle.
Even now, I am up to see if I feel any better standing up and surprisingly, I do….I am watching our aspens bend in the breeze and I observe that leaves are starting to sprout. I am so looking forward to seeing those towering aspens covered with bright green leaves and listen to them swaying in the wind as I lay in bed at night, trying to keep cool after a hot summer day. Those days are coming. I know they are. Those days of tossing on some flip flops to take a quit jaunt to Starbucks for their latest and greatest frappuccino to refresh us on a hot summer evening as we sit around the firepit on the patio and regale each other with stories of the weeks peculiarities or conquests.
Paris is always a good idea!
Speaking of France, which I was a couple of posts ago, I believe that Paris is always a good idea. We arrived in Paris via the underground Chunnel from London. Chunnel being short for English Channel Tunnel. I actually don’t recall when we were actually under the water as they were serving complimentary champagne on the train and I think it went to my head. When in Paris….

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